By being fully present with women through eye contact, listening, and prioritizing distraction-free conversations you give them the sense of feeling seen. I don't want to be with someone who I share everthing with music taste etc. They know that Cancers are a solid foundation they can build their future on. I have a strong aversion to anything but brunettes in terms of hair color and that usually what I notice first. The article actually contradicts you: they showed that girls earned more attention if they were arguably hot ie, a bunch of people loved their looks but a bunch of others didn't than if everyone agreed they looked alright. While their bodies may be in a state of conflict, their minds are somewhat united. I have also heard this about guys with big dicks.
Though I do think it changes with age for most people. And I also like my women petite. Definite plus if she agrees that Sean Connery was the best James Bond. No, not the instant response when you first see the looks of a new person, I can't control that. I like how long hair frames the face and is the perfect excuse for a nice ponytail.
On the primal evolutionary level of attraction everyone is somewhat attracted to those that they perceive to be of higher social value than others. If I had been given some wisdom and followed the advice my life would have been much, much better. Nah probably just a nice face and a lot of common sense. The male brain is subconsciously and sometimes consciously searching for women to make babies with. Not just mentally intelligent but also life-wise intelligent. Good personal hygiene and grooming habits but not obsessive about it. But for me the biggest turn off regardless of how phyiscally attractive I may find a girl is a person's attitude.
Which outfit do you like best? Id say in a perfect world her height and weight would be 5'8, 5'9 and anywhere from 135-155. I just can't someone with an attitude that thinks the whole world revolves around them. But Angelina Jolie is the furthest thing from attractive to me. Can confirm, I knew two girls that got plastic surgery. Perhaps in the old days when families were closer? For instance, a tough guy will look for a soft female. Not all girls are stupid and chase guys based off of their looks. Want a less new-agey term than presence? As much as most men resist this idea, when it comes to attracting a high value woman of character, drive beats dollars every time.
I've never dated a woman that wasn't height-weight proportionate, nor have I dated one that weighed more than 125lbs. In fact, guys love a girl who can have an intelligent conversation with them about worldly affairs. No older man told me how or who to pick for a wife. I agree with a lot of what's been posted, but I think people try to draw a line to cleanly between physical, mental, emotional and spiritual attraction. Yes I must agree the physical quality I like most is: fair. Is the answer anything but 100%? Being yourself is one thing — being brave enough to show it is another.
Most people are trying to make themselves look glamorous or innocent, most people are trying to live a life of luxury without any problems. I'm at the point I don't expect to find anyone else out there. One way I think a lot of us are programmed without even realizing it is racial differences. So make note of the two or three areas in which you could improve upon the most and commit to taking action on them as soon as possible. I would need all three to truly like someone a guy in my case. Just be yourself and you will find a mate who compliments you and you will live together ever after.
Write about anything you like on your own individual blog. Laugh, have a sense of humor and tease the guy you like. Also, she is not big on the makeup and prefers staying natural. In terms of looks, though I can appreciate a very broad spectrum of women, what I would be looking for in a relationship when I'd be with them regularly are the cute ones. Appearances play a big part in physical attraction.
But if your eyes have a unique color to them: ie, multiple colors. Like this one: A bit inbetween, you know? She says hi then pulls out a cigarette smoking is one of my turn offs. The reverse also seems to be true. I know this may sound a bit stupid or shallow, but sometimes hair color also plays a certain part. I am not a warm fuzzy person and it is very rare for me to become interested in any female even if they are attractive and show interest in me. I always like challenging myself and she could feel challenged by me.