For some reason it does help knowing other people are going through the same. In the best case scenario, she will rethink a break up after seeing how maturely you respected her wishes and gave her space. She also said we should not say it to anyone that we where on a break and explained that after the break was over we could press play again. The more you go for her, the less she comes for you. I sent her flowers to her workplace and she acted like she was pissed that I did but at the end of the conversation she wanted to hang out the next day. She is unable or unwilling to maintain a relationship with her. All your questions are answered in during the system.
Now, this may be after a couple of days or even a couple of weeks. She told me last night, Let me go and hope that I come back. I felt completely comfortable for once in my life. First of all, you must start thinking how should you response when she tells you that she need some space. It serve you well to take a proactive approach. And obviously she can't do long disance relationship. I called and told her this and she was very upset.
It is possible that she is interested in rekindling your relationship. The worse thing would be to force a relationship on someone who is bringing unresolved feelings and embryonal baggage from a previous relationship. The solution to either problem is the same, but the results of things will depend entirely on how long this woman holds things in before speaking up about being unhappy. When I would try to put my arms around her she would tell me to get off of her. I told her I already knew I wanted to be here with her, if not I would return home.
Yesterday I got a txt saying he still loves me and still cares and doesn't regret us. Learn a lesson from the end of this relationship. Then after a week your as good as being reborn! This could be an opportunity for you to grow as a person. Now I'm trying to do my own thing like getting fit and giving up the booze and general self improvement, hopefully she will give me another chance. Wow, that was a pretty nasty reaction from her. We both had fun and there was a lot of chemistry which ended in us kissing and very light fooling around at my place at the end of the night but she did not sleep with me.
In other words, don't call her. Divert your attention elsewhere, go out with other friends, meet new people, have fun. She wants to no longer nourish this relationship like she used to. Unfortunately, people are complex, and governed by emotions with no particular logic. You want the love you give turned back at you.
If your girlfriend needs some time apart you may fear that this is just the beginning of the end for the two of you. In the meantime reach for your bible and read Isaiah 43:18-19, Luke 18:27, Philippians 4:6-7, Psalm 71:20, Colossians 3:23, Mark 9:23, and Psalm 46:10. She sees just what it takes to get you begging and will file it away for future use. All of a sudden, she told me that she needs some space. It's embarrassing to think that I acted that way! I would have to agree with this post.
Your girlfriend isn't looking to spend time apart for reasons of reflection or healing. Bottom line: Any woman just like any man wants to be loved. He was saying what she needed to hear and i did not step it up. I'm going through it to mate its harsh, because like you I just want to know there is light at the end off the tunnel after our space from each other and I want to know we will rekindle what we had. Your situation is common and all your questions will be answered as you go through the system. I now have a steady job and income but the space factor is still there, im also clean. Either way, do you and give her the space.
We lived together for months. Because unless they're tree-stump stupid, they know exactly what your girlfriend meant by that. Looking like you're snooping on her will likely put more pressure on her. In the meantime, stay in prayer pray for yourself, her, the both of you, and tell God your desires, but ask for God's will to be done and work on bettering you. Please feel free to share more of your supportive comments in the future. Vic Dan, yes I think your dead on with that.
She has ended your relationship. If you are thinking of ending this relationship, then either speak with her about your thoughts and feelings or allow thoughts of her to fade. Now i came clean and told here how sorry i was for all the fighting, and things will get mutch better. Alternatively, if your relationship is over, she may very well ask you to come back if she finds out that you are dating someone else -- particularly if you begin dating someone else before she finds a replacement for you. .
You have an entire life to live. We had some financial problems for a little while but worked through it but I started to feel like a bad man and a bad provider for the life we were trying to build. I instantly deleted her, my family and friends all saw this post and called me saying it was classless. My girlfriend and I have just broken up as a result of unhappiness on her part. It can be rather difficult rejecting someone. Know When to Move on You cannot spend the rest of your life waiting around and hoping that she will like you enough to date.