I know he has his opinions but every situation or conversation I bring up he has to argue and be mean. In order to really win your boyfriend over, you have to show that you can get along with his buddies. I sure hope youve left this monster. I do understand she is really sick ,but aint golden ticket to have bad personality. Complains about this and that not getting done. I remember him saying something then about name calling not mattering.
I felt like I was nothing, and he would treat me as such but act innocent and managed to make me feel as though I was the bad guy. My boyfriend calls me that sometimes. Then he started to treated me much more worst that I know no one deserved. And I also have pimples on my face and he said I have pimpleitus and that you cant even see my face anymore. She can not handle the fact that it had been hey this whole time and she does not stop disrespecting me in every way imaginable.
He's never called me that before, I like it, but he's always called me , baby, maam. I tryed to forgive him but then he started calling me a whore, skank, ugly, fat, mcfatty just like every mean name you could think of. Enlist the support of friends, family members and even a counselor or support group. We get along great most times but the first 6 months he kept pushing me away and saying only friendship, then he told me he loves me, Im the woman for him etc. He may really injure you or even take your life one day. Well I have been married for 5 years.
You deserve someone loving and kind. Several things set him off , and i feel like its all my fault. I have been physically beaten so bad my spinal injury pain came back excruciating pain. It does not get better with time. A guy is very much capable of twisting his words,language,his personality in a second. At the end of the day, while there are certain things you may be able to do to make your relationship stronger and to be a more understanding girlfriend, you should want your boyfriend to appreciate and love the person who you really are, not some perfect, polished version of what you think a girlfriend should be.
I love him but i cant think anymore. I wish I can add angry smiley to for asking me this question but well happened has happened. He calls me ugly names that are beyond words cruel and abusive. Today, he went so far as to say that he is seeing someone else and that she treats him good and has plenty money. Then, they turn into an octopus and latch on to you for dear life. I have experienced a traumatic divorce where I was in denial of the manipulations and lies. I was married for 7 years before him and my ex husband never treated me that way.
But he had gotten back with his ex and I was devistated bc I knew she hates me and hates the closeness he and I have and that he tells her how important I am to him. Feels like I should move on before it s too late. Just be careful and research this. He is deliberately trying to make you feel crazy, I gaurantee it. But something in my heart makes me want to go back to him.
If you have any reason to believe that your safety might be compromised, consider contacting your local battered women's agency for assistance with planning for your safety. I wish there were an end in sight. He never controlled his screaming and words incuidng name calling in front of the kids. So in the end ifollowed my heart again, went by bike through snow for 14 km with stuff for her. He calls me mama, mami, booky and booboo those are both our thing together , he also calls me gorgeous, beautiful, baby, sugar and so many others! My boyfriend has been the one catering for my needs, paying my bills and school fees. Mrs sensitivity, a stubborn pain in the ass.
An abusive partner will tell you that no one else will love you because you are fat, ugly, stupid — pick a word. So much that my self esteem has lowered, and before him I was a very confident woman. If you feel like you have to change the person who you are to win your boyfriend over, then you should back off as soon as possible. If it's something that genuinely bothers him you should be able to discuss it like adults. Hes like my best friend here too I cannot meet friends here.
However, the reasons for not leaving an abusive relationship have nothing to do with self pity. Use your brain and make yourself happy. I was really happy carefree and outgoing person. Dont let that mother fer treat you that way. I broke up with him and he kept begging me to go back to him. He fights with me every single day in the morning and and in the night when he gets home from work.
Take it easy -- even if you feel love feelings, keep testing these until you are absolutely certain your own feelings are real and right. He will involve you in a lot of his activities that he does. You get so lost, you barely know or can admit to yourself that you deserve better. He is very manipulating and emotionslly,financially, and verbally abusive. Of course there is also a lot of good in him and I suppose I always overlooked the worst becasue of that.