Don't assume a nerdy girl is going to notice you over her latest graphic novel purchase. That goes a long way with nerdy guys. And yes, they make bullets with silver alloys in them, so werewolves and vampires, beware! One time I dated a nerdy guy and the first time he went down on me, it wasn't that great. They will see that maybe he's more social or more handsome, but they'll also see that you're smarter or more stable. All this does is help non-geeks pick up nerdy girls, and the male:female geek ratio isn't strong enough for that! ~ Tam Solomon, Contributing Writer. Note: His advice is not about changing yourselves, but about doing more positive things. Problem with me being is that I like to hang out in empty bars full of old people that don't bother me.
Henry Feel free to say Hi to me on twitter. To me, a nerd has intelligence and passion, and it doesn't really matter about what. It doesn't even have to be that good, and you only have to use it on occasion. Don't be pushy or desperate, things happen in their own time. It is also appealing to the types of girls you mention, because it allows them to flirt a little and meet people without the pressure of in-person game until you want to.
If she can be converted to full nerd, she'll do that on her own. When you hug a nerdy guy, he pours every bit of everything he can't always express to you in that hug. This is not as common as pop culture would like you to think. David Tennant is absolutely on my freebie list. I have a guide for surviving zombie attacks, and I game-lite.
Park Bench readers, have I missed any important tips? Take it slow, scope the situation, then make your move. Sharing literature and discussing what you've read is a good way to really get to know your fellow geeks, some of whom will be guys. If you do meet a girl at a geeky event, don't swamp her if she's already getting too much attention, don't be aggressive or predatory, don't beeline for the only female in the room like you've just smelled blood on the wind. Introduce yourself while at school or work. Hence why I was asking here for places to meet people with similar interests.
Hell, some higher end grocery stores teach classes in culinary knife skills, making sushi rolls and cooking Southwestern cuisine. Especially the ones worth being with. I am one, and it's difficult for me to start talking with strangers -- but more importantly, it's difficult for me to keep conversations going. Suggest a book group for her to join with you or offer to take her to a great science museum or documentary. By the way, be sure to take advantage of the benefits of becoming a regular.
When i went to Vegas in 2006, instead of heading down the strip for some poker. Congratulations on taking your first steps on the road to nerd girl nirvana. As for who would want a girl like this. If your in highschool, why not start a club? And as far as getting her into sci fi or nerdy shows, start with Firefly. Not the sexy, Kristen Stewart kind but the kind that needs to cut up your corpse and use your blood to open a portal to Hell so that she can release her demon brethren to feed on all mankind. In these parts we have steampunk, browncoats, and several trekkie groups, or what ever it is that you think could be fun.
Throughout your conversations, say silly comments or ask her funny questions to encourage smiles and laughs. If you don't know much about the thing she likes, say, Oh, I've been meaning to check that out, how is it? Just because a guy played football in high school, doesn't mean he isn't, say, a member of the Rooster Teeth community, or a fan of Chuck Klosterman's, etc. Ahhh, now that made me also want a nerdy girlfriend. Be it gamer girls, cosplay girls, etc Well, I can't do English very well, but I've been told that I can do a killer Indian accent. Then, shoot her a text when you want to say hello.
Surf through our lists and click on the members of your choice. I think the comic book store has the issues you describe, equally bookstore etc. You could be denying everyone the next iPad by trying to be someone else. In other words if you want to get or find a nerdy girl, get them to come to you buy wearing nerdy shirts or accessories that show off your fandom. Compliment her style and ask for an opinion.
I'm not saying you should fake your nationality, of course. Find your ideal girl or guy by signing up for a profile today, it only takes a couple of minutes and you can start browsing our members right away. My problem has always been that when I do meet someone that is truly compatible with me, she is already taken. We could work a quote from any of the first three Star Wars movies into just about any conversation, and it was during a long car ride that I let him to hear my imitation of R2D2 screaming. It was not a dating site but in an actual discussion forum.
They don't just learn how to do something. There are lots of ways to do this, from learning a new skill to volunteering for a good cause. Sci-fi City and A Comic Shop have game nights. Oh, but don't mention your disbelief in the coming zombie apocalypse. Believe us, everybody gets rejected.