You'll want a guy who has hobbies, friends, and a good perspective on life. The moment he proposed, I started how we both will live together and will have children together, and the thoughts made me feel happy. A gives me love and comfort but I am not romantically attracted to him. While I started and developed the relationship with him because I was very lonely at the time, I developed feelings for him and to this date, he is my closest friend. Not being in a relationship really isn't bad.
The next time you're around each guy, make an effort to really engage him and to think about what it is you like about him so much. Plus, it might get the guy you chose unnecessarily jealous. Even if you feel attracted to him, what's the use in going through the same thing all over again if it caused you heartbreak and misery? Neither would be a bad choice — as long as you committed to the choice you made. Try our latest: , see how much of a liberal, conservative, neo-con, etc. The thing is, I've had a thing for the other one for 3 years now.
I've been dating someone for almost two years however the relationship is kinda dead. Sure, you may have fun with him, but is that something you want to be responsible for in the long run? One of them doesn't even know who I am. But I like the thought of Person 1 too. Work on building a healthy, stable relationship with the guy you've chosen -- and only the guy you've chosen. You don't want it to be awkward. Take their advice, but with a grain of salt.
Remember that you're not asking them to help you pick the better guy, or the guy that they would pick, but that you want them to help you decide what's right for you. Does he make you feel like he's only interested in you, or does he seem like he flirts with other girls all the time, and you're just another girl on his long list? I guess Crush 1 would suit me more. And he's the hotter out of the two. This is just as important as thinking about what you like about each guy. Well, this quiz was built to help you make your decision! But B is simple, self-centered, immature and often shallow, and when I need a person who understands me and feels what I need and how I feel, I think about A.
If he tickles you, is it weird or do you like it? If you're serious about making this choice, then you have to consider the pros and the cons of being with each guy. I hope you will consider seeing a therapist to help you sort this out. Guys who are only interested in themselves can be pretty boring. So both my crushes are actually guys who used to have a crush on me g1 and who i think still has a crush on me g2 but sometimes i like g1 more then sometimes i like g2 more. How does each one make you feel? So I dated r for 3 months and he broke up wth me.
I tried getting over him, but a part of me wants to be his girlfriend. You Just Took a Quiz on GoToQuiz. Every day in the school holidays, I dreamed and thought about B. If you're overly friendly with him, he might think that he still has a chance. Meanwhile, you are being dishonest with both.
He begged me to stay with him, claiming that I'm his world. Imagine yourself being with each of them -- does one guy make you feel special?. If so, he might be the better choice! It is because you like them more. The process of deciding to move out and moving out was very difficult and hurtful. Enjoy the benefits of being with one person without wondering what another guy is up to. I really liked if not even loved the first one tho and still do Then he asked me if we could still be friends and I said yes. Saying, Well done, that's amazing! Is he interested in things outside himself? Soon, I decided to move out and live alone for some time to figure things out and decide who I wanted to be with.
This will help you see what you really wanted in the first place. I concluded that having a relationship with him wouldn't be very healthy, but I held on to hope. He felt like a family and I did and still do care about him. When you're ready, they will be ready and respect that if they love you. If both guys are completely devoted to you, then you have a tough task on your hands. Then you will have to choose between the one who stayed or no choice at all.