The other person has to want to help themselves and even then no one can truly do it alone. For some reason, he might not want to be telling you every detail of his breakup with this other woman. His actions currently are that of a coward. All that I do know, when she found out one time he had dinner with me, she cut up all his clothes and hit,bit and scratched him another time when he took me to see his sister , he actually told her that. I'm confused is that why he's lied about having a girlfriend because he's afraid id stop talking to him? You know how that usually turns out…clinginess, jealousy, anger, tears. Look amazing and find the great life you deserve. I think women bring a tremendous strength and power to the table in relationships… when they have access to it and are free of their own fears.
Please seek counselling if you can, they can really help you learn to deal with things in life like this. Oftentimes, girlfriends are simply too sensitive to accept the fact that you held your own and did something your way. Using Cocaine almost killed him. In the beginning he would do anything for me including drive miles at all hours of the day to get to me when I wanted his company. He wants sex, even if he has to give some relationship to get it.
But the final decision is yours. We have lived together for 5 years as domestic partners. Sorry about the lengthy email. All we can do is control our actions and attitude. He is hurting her and leading her on. Plus he has to sneak to see me. Ever notice how easy it is to get a girl when you're in a relationship yet how difficult it is once you're single? So why would he keep putting it off and then leave it undone after all? He also said her sister lives in the same area and she was staying with her sister and not him.
. If a man has yet to realize and acknowledge these things, he will view telling a lie as nothing too serious. Normally he tells me things like that, he rarely or only that I know of lies or keeps secrets. And the photo is not of a man, it looks like a 15 year old kid being confronted by his mother or older sister LoL. Hi, I think men lie for their own good and benefit. If someone cannot see they are wrong to lie, you are dealing with a major problem, maybe even a personality disorder.
Today, I found out that he and his girlfriend are still together and never broke up. So they downplay or avoid the subject. I am a firm believer that you teach people how to treat you and your example is on point with how lying does that. Those three words are like a psychological aphrodisiac for most women. Relationship problems like this are also global. He came to Birmingham to take care of his aunt she died last oct.
But, this is part of human nature too. That's right, you did think of setting up that romantic dinner all by yourself. People lie because they want to. Well again attacked him and threw boiling water on him. He approached me at work asking me why I gave him a fake number and why I blocked him on insta. I was tipsy, I text him saying to lose my phone number. Friendship is fine, but by asking about your male friends it suggests that he is interested in more than that.
It is not what I want it to be yet but I have faith that he will be all that be wants to be. Women, understand the reasons above and eliminate contributing to the temptation of lies in the ways that you can. And, maybe to throw it out to the young guys that it is really a horrible thing to do, even though it may seem innocent enough at the time. He gets awkward when I ask him about her or he gets mad. I just want to move on but do it in a civilised way without being bitter.
I found out he is very self centered and makes sure he comes first no matter what. You can't ask someone else to love you. I had only asked him two questions about this. One may be that he was trying to find a way to break of the sexual relationship with you. When I pulled in the parking lot a blond girl walked out on his deck, and shortly after, he walked out on his deck too. I mean we were not exclusive and even though he knew how I cared and wanted be he still talked to other girls. With that being said, you should have stopped that relationship 4 years ago when it started before your emotions had got involved.