But I only had so many stories to tell, and I was getting exhausted. I will give you her take on it. I can let my mind forget the day, almost let it go blank. I think he actually got back together with his ex-fiancée. Download the Savage Lovecast every Tuesday at. But his girlfriend cheated on him, and now he has a free card to go fuck someone else.
We will be breaking the rules for what married couples are supposed to do. Performing for Florida felt good. Also Alice's thing about the therapist reminds me of a thread I wanna start some time accusing most therapists of not having a clue what they're talking about. I wanted to be the one who got to do whatever I wanted while my partner stayed obedient and faithful to me. Or would you even prefer being in the same room while it was happening? It still reads as though he hired a black male prostitute and watched his girlfriend having sex with him.
She was straightforward with the guy from the get-go, and he was a bit weirded out by the whole thing. No longer would I be bound to a boyfriend back home who drained me with his need for my love and attention. I have noticed many other black men have been approached to also do this. None of those things apply to me. The idea of her letting another guy in, going down on him, etc, is exciting to me. At the end of the day people like all sorts of sexual things.
I used to hang out in biker bars and have been propositioned a couple times to do a wife but turned it down. Cuckolding couples are, interestingly, excellent communicators—Dr. Thank you for being so open about this. And as a result of that, I have this fantasy. Hey man, wanna bang a hooker? The voyeurism of his fetish got to me.
It's really a combination of things but ultimately my wife just being unashamed of what she wants and how she wants it is very sexy. Is there a medical danger to deep-throating? That's what happened to Stacey. I have been on cuckolding websites. I wasn't honest that part of me didn't like what we were doing, and he wasn't honest when he said he was okay if I wanted to stop. She speculated it is because I have a big ego—if other men want her, her value is higher. Even as we move into more of the swinger lifestyle it's still only something we'd do maybe once every couple months.
Just something we do once in awhile to kick it up a notch. Some men are into the idea of cuckolding and humiliation, in a masochistic way. I don't seem to understand this question. There are a lot of other ways we have fun together. So they enjoy watching, hearing about, or fantasizing scenarios where a 'primal male' ravishes their partner.
There's a risk of disease, but it's relatively easy to minimize that risk. She speculated it is because I have a big ego — if other men want her, her value is higher. Why do husbands find it hot and desirable? It's long and thick—definitely bigger than average—and I take pride in being able to fit it all the way down my throat. I got off several times during the experience: imagining what was going on when I knew they were together, imagining it as I waited for her to call me in the morning, looking at the pictures and listening to her tell me the story over video chat, and having her retell the story in person as she got me off. Like, here's the one thing almost no one else would be willing to give you in a relationship.
I detailed weird meet-ups with rising rappers and told Florida about every man I screwed or who even showed interest in me. I think this is where this cuckold fantasy come from. Its not a fantasy of mine but I am curious about it. That's what I'm giving to her. The cuckold scenario was one of the questions he asked of potential partners among others. For example, pain can feel good. In all other aspects of my life, I consider myself to be quite progressive.
That's not a healthy dynamic—it's a selfish form of narcissism and sexual self-interest. Also being desired to the point of possession but only in bedroom. I seek attention from both sexes. I just tried to figure out how it could feel. Every once and a while he will text me.
In the end, as always, it depends on you and your partner. Someone you love intensely is also now the same one that is taboo or off-limits. At first I absolutely loved it, although I was curious about why this turned him on so much. Florida and I eventually drifted apart. As long as everyone is adult, consenting, and no one gets hurt I don't see a problem here. Don't get me wrong, sex can be an amazingly powerful emotional experience, but it can also be just a pleasurable physical experience. The other person being absolutely helpless to you is kind of intoxicating.