Work on being someone that can love to the fullest, forgive, nurture, encourage, teach…. All he do now is be on his music all the time and close hisself away from me and our children. You can put this to the test by dressing up and showing some skin. He wants to avoid you because he is not ready to face the reality that the relationship might be over. What really bothers me now is tht he doesn't even hug me anymore, kiss me. Believe me, if you break up you'll just be a little sad.
He doesnt talk to anyone else like he does to me, i am sure of that. He doesn't' t need me for nothing, He has no affection, conversation , or taking me anywhere at all for months on end more like in last two years. He always finds an excuse to touch my hands, even now. What is the horrible issue I'm talking about? About every day or two I would contact her to confirm the date, but she never responded. But he only texted me once after that but we talked until about 1:00 am. The next day he was going to come to my baseball game. After becoming engaged to my late husband, I discovered that he had been dishonest with me by not informing me that he had been married before, a big deal for Catholics.
He always looks at me and makes eye contact with me. Men and women are so different, I think it is important to appreciate those differences. If this is the case, forget about this douche bag. He is the first guy to ever give me a promise ring but yet he seems so distant. Take some distance, admit you own needs and let him find himself.
His conversation will dwell on normal things, not love or romance. Up to now he never ever shares his feelings or emotions with me. Commit yourself to these things in healthy balance, and understand that in life lows will come so that we can greater appreciate the highs. The Sunday we started talking, tuesday we decided to meet. About a month or so ago, I kept asking him who he liked because we were just good friends and he told me who he liked. Establish some unspoken boundaries…for your own sake. We had fun, he had me laughing.
He is a high level pro and we live on very little. He too has become distant, critical of a lot of my traits and things I do or say. I'd rather be alone than settle. I am not understanding what is that he wants and what am I to him. Maybe he feels anger, resentment, or frustration in the relationship and arguments provide an easy outlet to let these emotions come to the surface. Its strange how people can act.
My bestie knew that I liked him and she told me to approach him but I wasnt confident. They're right under your nose when you start looking around you! So we have mostly kept in in contact via texting for a while. Your third sentence and second to last sentence are baffling if taken at face value. I didnt do anything bad at him and my intention were pure. So my daughters dad n i have been together for 8 yrs. He said he will not change his mind or come back that is it. However, he never makes it clear whether he is comfortable with me because he sees me as a sister or a friend, or as a lover.
I take Martial arts classes with my son and for the past two weekends I have not gone because I hurt my back and am not feeling good enough to return to the classes. Over texting him about it could be viewed as desperate, pressuring him or your bombarding him. He gets really defensive when I try and ask what happened between them. I had a friend and I trusted her fully. Would be great to hang out with you.
If it turns out your man is just taking the relationship for granted, stepping back to focus on yourself and your wellbeing might be the thing that encourages him to step up. I suppose I am in a dark road without any light ending. Pays for everything and takes care of me when we are near…. Then two days later, she completely cut off all communication with me. But if a man has those feelings it means he doesn't love me. I feel I have to say thank you November 1, 2015, 8:29 am I met this guy three months ago. I feel so worthless every day of my life.
Give him the benefit of the doubt. I adressed him and he made up a lie and said he doesn't talk to her anymore. Wow now tht im reading all this, he definantly wants to break up. Then we meet, The problem is he always drunk, he always making dramas about his family, he doin trouble and out of control. But he always seems to be too busy to see me in person.
Ok so me n my man have been together for 5 yrs. I feel like my presence annoys him coz whenever I seat next to him he moves away. He never kisses nor embraces me, he just turns around after we have sex. I was looking for casual because I have too much goi on in my life but liked this guy. Obviously those were just pretty little words. We used to be really close friends.